What constitutes 'emotional abuse' anyway? He said some mean shit to you on occasion? Oooh big deal I thought you were all supposed to be strong independent women FFS and I suppose you were an angel the entire time? Or is it only women who get to be the abused victim when they exercise the exact same behaviour themselves. I'm sorry but if you date someone for a long time and claim you love them, then they dump you, and then you go and tell everyone they 'emotionally abused' you that whole time, you are full of shit and are obviously piggybacking a movement to hurt the person who hurt you.